It is very common to be rejected when chasing girls. She rejects you once or twice. This may be a test for you, but if you keep rejecting you, it may not be as simple as a test. In this case, do you still need to persist in pursuing it?
Below, the editor will share with you two For such a story, please judge for yourself.
First one:
When I first went to college, there was a very elegant boy in my class. He is introverted and very cheerful when playing with boys. I am very shy around girls, and my face turns red even after saying a few words to a girl.
One time, a book exhibition was held in the library. A female classmate in the class happened to meet him and casually asked him to visit the book exhibition. He felt warm in his heart and happily accompanied the other party. In fact, the two of them didn't say a few words. When they got there, they just read their own books. After my brother came back, his expression was different, he looked sweet and happy. Obviously, he was very moved and fell in love with the female classmate.
Then, a few days later, he worked up the courage to send a carefully edited text message to his female classmate to express his love. The confession text messages were well-chosen, punctuated, brilliant, and affectionate. It can be said that he exhausted his talents.
After sending the text message, he was excited and nervous at the same time. He was simply restless. Ten minutes later, he received a reply from the other party: Thank you for your affection. You're fine, but we're not a good fit.
He looked at the text message like a flower beaten by frost, listless. We asked him: What are his plans next? He said firmly: I will not give up. I believe this is the test she gave me and I will continue to pursue her. How long do you plan to continue chasing? We asked him. His eyes sparkled: Twenty years! We were surprised: Are you sure? He nodded, as if he would not look back until he hit the wall. We saw it and didn’t say anything, we just patted him on the shoulder.
Half a month later, he told us that he confessed his love to a female classmate for the second time and was rejected. A month later, his third confession was rejected. The other person didn't even want to talk to him anymore, and turned his head to the side even when he met him. If several classmates are playing together, the female classmate will basically not look at him. This made him increasingly miserable and crazy.
Just like that, a year has passed and we have basically forgotten about it, as if it was just a funny joke. One time, a roommate had a birthday, and everyone was chatting and laughing, but I don’t know who suddenly mentioned it. We asked him what happened next, and he laughed: I gave up, I was bored. I joked: Did I remember you said you would chase her for twenty years? It seems like there are still nineteen years left! He smiled awkwardly and said: Those were all impulsive words at the time. If you don't like it, you just don't like it. No matter how long you chase, or how many times you confess your feelings, it's useless. Maybe I'm too stupid. I should have known from the first time she rejected me that she didn't like me at all.
Second:
I still remember the once popular movie "Passing Through Your World". In the film, the euphemistic and twists and turns of love between Chen Mo (played by Deng Chao) and Yao Ji (played by Zhang Tianai) are touching. At least the two of them embraced each other affectionately at the end. But what impressed me most in the film was the sadistic love between Zhu Tou (played by Yue Yunpeng) and Yan Zi (played by Liu Yan).
In the film, Pig Tou and Swallow are college classmates. Zhutou liked Yanzi very much when he was in college. He cared about her very much and was very considerate. Once, Yanzi was wrongly accused of stealing something by her roommate, and Zhutou stood up to protect her, showing his masculinity. After graduating from college, Zhutou liked Yanzi as always and pursued him eagerly.
When Zhutou prepared everything, invited all relatives and friends to Yanzi’s birthday party, and prepared to propose to Yanzi on the spot, Yanzi said lightly: Thank you, but we are not suitable. The swallow turned around and left gracefully, while the pig's head remained in place like it was petrified, dumbfounded. Yanzi took a taxi and left, but Zhutou stayed behind crying, chasing and calling the name of his beloved girl. He couldn't catch up, so he had to kneel on the ground and cry...
At that moment, I was very sad. This feeling of being ruthlessly rejected seems familiar. Why don't you know the pain in Zhutou's heart? Perhaps the saddest thing in the world is that you want to propose to the woman you love, but she wants to break up with you.
In fact, the audience knows it in their hearts. It's not that Zhutou is not good enough to Yanzi, or that his heart is not sincere, but that Yanzi doesn't like Zhutou at all, or in Yanzi's heart, Zhutou is not worthy of her at all, even if he treats her well.
You like me, even if I pass by your world, one day we will meet at the end of the world; if you don't like me, no matter how I treat you with my heart, after all, I am just a passerby in your world.
Love, like any good thing, is hard-won. However, good love does not require you to work hard to pursue it, it does not require you to be hit again and again, and it does not require you to move the whole world and wrong yourself alone.
So, if the girl you are chasing keeps rejecting you, then give up. If you insist on stalking, forcing yourself while forcing others, why will you suffer?
In fact, even if a girl likes you a little, how can she endure rejecting you again and again? Life is short, just like a fleeting moment, it's just sudden. There is no grass at the end of the world, so don't hang yourself from a tree.
