Many boys say that they can’t chase girls, that it’s hard to chase girls, and that it’s still not okay to be so nice to her... Having said so much, in fact, the root cause of the problem is: they don’t know how to chase girls, and they don’t understand what girls need. What is. In fact, if you master the skills of chasing girls, chasing girls is not a problem. Let’s share 4 tips on chasing girls.
1. How to approach girls correctly
Chasing girls The first point of technique is to approach girls, and the first thing to approach girls is to chat with them. Obviously, when chatting with a girl, it is more important to focus on her side and talk more about her. Again, what everyone cares more about is themselves. Chatting with girls does not need to be carried out by asking questions frequently, and there is no need to mention the topic of discussion from beginning to end, just expand on one topic of discussion. There is no direction or theme when chatting with girls. They chat a lot about emotional things. You must talk about the same type of things as her emotions.
And when chatting with a girl, you don’t have to talk to her all the time. You can talk to her a lot when she is depressed, and proactively cut off the conversation when she doesn’t really want to chat. Discussion Topics.
2. Don’t use confession to confirm the relationship
Many boys like a girl I just like to confess my feelings, but the results are not satisfactory, what should I do? In fact, boys don’t need to try to win the love of girls by confessing their feelings. Because before a girl has feelings for you, your confession may only result in one or two sentences: "Let's just be friends." The correct way to establish a relationship with a girl is to attract her, your smile; The tone of speaking; body posture; your status... This is a combination of all your fields, and it is not just one or two words of confession that you can make a girl like to have feelings for you. The way a girl likes someone is definitely based on some subtle things. For example, she is willing to play alone with you, she accompanies you to eat at her favorite restaurant, she tells her a lot of emotional things, shares her joys and sorrows with you, etc. These are all signs that a girl likes you. performance.
3. Love is not a one-sided effort
Many boys chase girls When he was young, he would only devote himself to the girls. He would do whatever the girls asked him to do, and he would do it willingly. The purpose was to win a little favor from the girls. When he wanted to get closer to the girls, the girls started to hide away. He doesn't want to have any more contact with him. Such a man is what we call a spare tire. A normal relationship requires both parties to pay, I ask youFor dinner, you invite me to drink milk tea. Only if we come and go again can we last long.
4. Advanced relationships require the right time
Boys chasing girls Of course you want to have physical contact, but the timing of this advanced relationship also needs to be grasped. It's not good to be too early or too late. How to grasp it? When can you advance the relationship? If a girl is willing to date you alone two or three times, and her mood is very positive every time, then you should do it at this time Be brave enough to improve your relationship. Don't worry, a girl will never reject you. Even if she rejects you, it's out of reserve. You just need to boldly advance again.
