I have always had a question in my mind: Should I confess my love? How should I confess that the success rate is very high? I get asked this question a lot, but I usually say yes. "If you like it, just confess it" I said. "For the sake of pass rate..." Does success and failure really matter?
I have seen all kinds of opinions, in the midst of so many confusions and In the uncertainty, what I encountered was a kind of fear.
Everyone is afraid of rejection, and we all feel that rejection is a shameful thing.
It's like being slapped hard or being blamed. It's like a warm face against a cold butt, like you got that sentence after working hard.
The clown is myself.
One of my favorite Chiba players posted a Weibo like that.
The main meaning is why some people take screenshots of other people’s confessions in Moments, just to satisfy their own vanity.
He had been rejected before and was embarrassed to be publicly criticized by others. I very much agree with this view.
No one can express their love easily, and every sincerity should not be let down, nor should it be used as a special tool to show off oneself.
But from another perspective, I noticed its narrative style.
“I feel that I am not confident after being rejected.”
Where does this confidence and embarrassment come from? What prevents us from saying those few words of confession calmly and firmly?
Personally, I think everyone understands the expression of love differently.
I have also had the experience of failed confession. My mother Solo was ignorant, but it didn’t leave any scratches on my heart.
It's not because I don't love her. In fact, this is also a confession that is three or even six years late.
It is not easy to miss someone for three years, which is enough to show that I finally understand that I like her.
Although it was a bit late, I didn’t dare to deal with the emotions of ordinary high school until my junior year, but my love experience seemed to be different from others.
Love is not possession, it is not blooming flowers just for one person, but a simple blessing. It's the words "I wanted to touch but took my hand back" and "I see you are sad, so I want to cry."
So I didn’t have a predetermined outcome at the beginning, so I left the decision-making power to the other party.
Speaking of confession, the explanation in the encyclopedia is this. It symbolizes love and is generally known as the form of relationship creation between lovers.
Some people may perceive the second half of the sentence and selectively ignore the first half. The effect of confession is actually to show affection.
When I had no hope at all, I said: "I like you, I like you so much." Contains Strong determination and calmness.
Because love itself is positive and noble, as long asIt's because we want to possess it too much. It seems that not possessing it and not being accepted means that I am not worthy and everyone is bad.
That's not the case.
In fact, it is just a way to express admiration. That's what I thought at the time. Love is a beautiful thing, but it is mixed with many little things and impulses.
If it’s mutual love, I’ll tolerate it. If there is no fate and no sharing, it doesn't matter. Just be a good friend with an open mind.
Can’t relatives and friends love each other?
Since love is so broad, why should we limit ourselves to a narrow range full of exclusive desires?
The result of being rejected in the end was not without gain.
The girl said that she had never thought that she was loved by others and had always been relatively insecure. I was the first person who treated him to confess. She has no idea of ??love.
My optimistic attitude made my first experience anything but rejection.
Personal monologues include: Even if I am rejected, I am the first person to be excited and have the satisfaction of getting rid of a little inferiority complex.
My confession may heal others. I am filled with joy.
Shouldn’t love be beautiful?
Leave her to love me? Do you want to be with me? What should you do if you don't want to be with me? Everyone is atone for their sins.
I didn’t question myself at all. She had said the common rejection in sales, "I think you're great."
I successfully got the gift card and said, "I feel the same way." Having a relationship is truly a hero's experience. same.
Flowers should grow in the mountains, gathering the essence of heaven and earth. I met them by chance and fell in love with them.
It has accompanied me through a period of dusty years. I should be the one who made it happen, and I should be the one who is grateful.
After reading this article, I just want to say to you:
"I like you, thank you for your patience in reading this article."
" If you have someone you like, you can love bravely without feeling guilty. Who can refuse someone's kindness without leaving any residue? Glad you're here. Whatever you achieve, it won't last.
