Have you ever been given a good guy card while chasing a girl? Have any girls told you that you are a good person, but we are not suitable? Or, maybe you are a good person, but I don’t want to fall in love yet. You are a nice person, but I really have no feelings for you. At this time, you must have questions all over your face. I am a good person, so I was rejected. Do I like a bad person? Why do girls send you good guy cards?
How to avoid being issued a good guy card when chasing girls?
The reason why many boys are given good guy cards by girls is because they are not good enough to girls, cannot arouse girls’ emotions, and are only ineffectively good to girls. So what should be changed?
First, be kind to girls to the point of your heart
Are you good to girls to the point of being nice to girls? Go, what you did can only be said to be quite satisfactory, and you can’t find any big faults. Girls are easily moved and become emotional. If you do your best to be gentle and caring, then you will be unique in the eyes of girls. Girls will also be tempted and moved.
For example, if some girls have stomachaches and discomfort during their menstrual period, you may be concerned, ask, and ask the girls to drink more hot water, but this is something that many people can do. If you can After a girl says she feels uncomfortable, send red date and ginger water, whether bought or made by yourself, to the girl's door, and then tell the girl not to forget to take it and drink it. The girl's feelings towards you will be completely different, and you can even remember the girl. It’s even more different when you don’t have to wait for girls to tell you about your menstrual period every time. You can prepare it for girls in advance. Girls will feel that, hey, this is real intention and they will be particularly touched. Then we are talking about bad things. of.
Second, arouse girls’ emotions
Some boys are given good guy cards by girls because they cannot arouse girls’ emotions. Girls feel calm when they are with you. Yes, there is no disturbance at all. It cannot arouse girls' emotions, whether they are happy or sad. And if you can arouse a girl's emotions, you will inadvertently make her blush.
For example, when crossing the road with a girl, you naturally pull the girl to the inside of the road and walk on the outside, or inadvertently Give girls a veil touch. If these behaviors happen naturally in the right situation, girls will not reject it, but will have a feeling of excitement.
Third, being nice to girls must be effective
Our kindness to girls must be effective. What is said on the Internet about not being nice to girls, and girls are not to be chased. These are all It comes from those losers in relationships, because they don’t get a good result when they are nice to girls, just because they shouldn’t be nice to girls. In fact, most of what these people call good is self-righteous, and good is ineffective. Not that girls really want toIf you want it, it will bring a burden to girls.
What is effective for girls is to focus on what they are doing. In the interaction between two people, they should do things well within their own abilities. In the process, they can show their strengths and advantages, and It’s what the other party needs and needs to acknowledge, and this is what is truly good to girls.
For example, if you have a meal with a girl, you only know how to eat, go shopping, and watch movies. There is nothing new at all, and you don’t care about the girl. Preferences. After dinner, I asked the girl what she likes to eat when I arrived at the restaurant, asked her to order, and sent her home after the meal.
And attentive boys will do their homework in advance, ask girls to eat, book a hotel in advance, and confirm that after dinner, the two of them can take a walk, what are the restaurant’s signature dishes, and which ones are suitable for girls Introduce the taste to the girl when ordering, let the girl refer to it, and then send the girl downstairs in the evening. Even while the two of them are chatting, they have thought about the next date project, so that they can sell it to the girl. , let’s experience it. It turns out that there are not enough things for girls to guess. Girls may have average feelings for you, but. After such an attentive date, a girl will have a great change in her view of you. She will feel that you are attentive. Being with you is reassuring and interesting. She is looking forward to the next date.
Therefore, if boys want to avoid being given the good guy card, they must do the above three aspects.
