Nowadays, many people born in the 80s and 90s have reached the age of trial marriage, but many people are still single. At this time, your parents will be very worried and organize various blind dates for you. It is inevitable to encounter this situation when going on a blind date: you think the other person is very good and like it very much, but the other person has no feelings for you. I don’t need her contact information when going on a blind date, or my conversations every day are lukewarm. Some people will choose to give up when they encounter this feeling, but some people feel that they can try harder. So how do you pursue a girl you met on a blind date back home?
Find the right breakthrough point.
I believe that through your first blind date meeting, you should still have some conversation and understanding. You may already know the other person's preferences and interests. If that's the case, then this is where the effort comes in. For example, if the other person likes a certain singer, and you happen to have tickets to that singer's concert, you can use this as a reason to ask her out again; for another example, the two of you actually have a common friend, or a common friend. If you know each other well, you can ask your friends to help you and invite you two to meet again.
When facing someone who doesn’t fall in love with us at first sight, we shouldn’t resort to stalking. That will only make the other person hate you more and stay away from you. Instead, we should be targeted, find the right breakthrough, and take effective actions.
Strive to create opportunities to meet.
If you want to develop a relationship effectively, you must also work hard to create more opportunities to meet. Let the other person feel that the two of you are really destined! You can go to the place where the other person works or lives, pretend that you are passing by by chance, or you are going to the other person for business, so as to create opportunities for romantic encounters. If you really meet, your expression will be very surprised and you will say: "What a coincidence, you are here too!" Then you will say a few casual greetings, and the content of the conversation should not be too much, so as not to make the other party feel embarrassed.
And if the other person takes care of you because of work, then you can invite the other person to dinner again to express your gratitude. In short, as long as we can meet again, this is a big progress.
Just don’t close your information.
When you learn that the other person does not like you, you should correct your mentality, try not to "love" the other person, and try to be friends first. Once we get to know each other, feelings will naturally develop.
If you ask each other for each other’s contact information and both add WeChat or QQ, and she hasn’t blocked you yet, then you should behave well. You should update your space log in time and publish more positive and optimistic texts and pictures. It can be a detailed insight into life, or it can be something you are going through, such as travel photos, fitness photos, photos of volunteering and dedicating your youth, etc.
The purpose of posting these is to refresh your sense of existence, strive to be the most active and dazzling "passerby" around her, and hope that she will notice you. if onlyIf you can catch her attention, your chances will be greatly increased.
Generally speaking, if the other person doesn’t like you, it’s because you didn’t show enough attraction during the blind date. In fact, you need some tricks at this time to create more opportunities to contact her. As long as the other party doesn't ignore you, then you still have a chance.
