It took a lot of effort to establish a good impression in the girls' minds, but a few inadvertent moments made the girls feel disgusted. I believe this is the last thing that all boys want to see, so let’s take a look at the moments of boys that make girls disgusted. Be careful not to get shot.
1. Inappropriate jokes
Example: "Where are you going? La?"
Some boys' speaking skills are really not to be praised. When chatting with girls, they seem to be particularly good at talking, and they talk endlessly one sentence after another, but in fact they are all nonsense with no nutrition, and even There are also people who use their self-righteous imagination to say things that embarrass girls!
The phrase "Where have you been wandering?" accounts for a very high frequency of occurrences in sexy operations.
Ten o'clock in the evening...
Girl: "I'm still outside."
Boy blurted out: "If you don't go back so late, where are you going?"
Weekend afternoon...
Girl: "I'm still outside and haven't returned to XX yet."
Boy was surprised: "Oh, I haven't been here for so many days. Come back, where have you been wandering?"
Oh my god, wandering? Why does it have to be wandering outside? In fact, when boys say this, their original intention is just "What did you go to do?" Girls If you just run out to play, there is nothing wrong with this sentence.
But if a girl is going to do business, especially some very serious things that make people unhappy, seeing a boy When a girl hears the word "lang", she will instantly feel quite uncomfortable. Even if she knows that the word "lang" is just an Internet buzzword, she will still feel uncomfortable in her heart.
The most serious situation is when girls directly explode: "I'm kidding you mlgb, my mother is in the hospital and I will take care of you. You are sick."
Joking is to bring the girl closer. A good method, but joking requires skill and choice, and it depends on the degree of the relationship. Not everything can be used as a joke.
Try not to joke about things that can easily cause misunderstandings or cause mental stimulation to girls. Brothers who like to use vulgar memes on the Internet, you should think carefully about it, don't accidentally bump into a girl's gun, and your relationship will turn from hot to cold in an instant!
2 , Violation of character
Example 1: "Have you had breakfast?"
Xiao Wang next door met a girl. The two of them hit it off immediately after they met. Let's chat. Throughout the whole day, he planted an anchor in the girl's heart with his excellent performance and occupied a place in her heart.
The next dayAfter Wang woke up, he still felt unfinished. He skillfully opened WeChat and sent a message to his sister, ready to start a new day: "(smiling expression) Have you had breakfast?"
The girl saw the interesting little brother like this I had sent myself a message a long time ago and opened my phone excitedly, but when I saw the message, I suddenly felt a thrill in my heart.
An ominous premonition arises spontaneously, and those loser men who used to give me headaches, are boring and boring, and are always mindless to please themselves, appear in front of me.
Some boys like to please girls blindly, and always check in to say hello to girls every day; some boys want to chat with girls but don’t know what to talk about, so after thinking hard, they decide to send a "What are you doing" first? Have you eaten?" He greeted her.
Girls who have had many experiences of dealing with this type of boys will see this sentence and subconsciously associate you with other boring men who don’t know how to chat, how to flirt with girls, and just want to please her. Lose interest in you instantly.
When the anchor of the heart is lost, your image in a girl’s heart is like a boat floating freely in the sea, and it is difficult to get it back.
Example 2: Post a sand sculpture emoticon package
For example, the Republic of China emoticon package, panda head emoticon package, mushroom Head emoji pack, how can I describe these expressions? They have a taste that is hard to describe in one word. People who like it like it very much, and people who hate it also hate it very much. Some people like to use it very much, but they can't bear to see others send it to them.
You were having a great chat with a girl earlier. You looked high-end and classy, ??like a male god. Suddenly, a Republican emoticon came to you. When the girl saw that wretched and sultry smile, she seemed to hear the sound of breaking glass, which was the sound of the male god's image crumbling.
The failure of these two things is that after you leave a first impression on a girl, it is equivalent to you having a good personality, but you also do something that violates this personality. With your sexy operation, you can personally tear apart a girl’s good impression of you.
After these words and these actions are made, your image will be in a state of fragmentation in the girl's heart, and she will be unable to give you a specific position. If you chat with her again later, she may just deal with you hastily and then let it go.
Therefore, in the early stage of getting to know girls, before they have developed a deep understanding, everyone should try their best to maintain their own personality, especially Girls already have a very good impression of you at the beginning, so it’s better to pay attention to maintaining your initial good impression in the first two days.
To show a girl more of you, you need to have known her for at least three days, or after you have been able to talk to each other about your innermost feelings, then let her see a side of you that is completely different from her previous impression.
