The most troublesome thing for boys is chasing after slow-heating girls. Their sense of self-protection is very strong, and chatting often gives people a cold feeling. You always say a few words to her. So how should you pursue this kind of girl?
How to chase a girl who is slow to warm up?
1. Treat her as a friend, don’t confess your feelings to her
In fact, chasing girls who are slow to warm up It's like making soup. They are silent and don't bubble on the surface, but their inner world is full, so they have to take their time.
You must not show your love intentionally or unintentionally. What girls who cook slowly are most afraid of being too purposeful. Everyone knows that thick soup should be simmered over low heat. So if you turn on high heat, aren't you afraid of drying out the base?
So, when you first get to know each other, you should try your best to avoid talking about emotional things and just get along normally like friends. Who doesn’t like multiple friends?
2. Pay attention to details
You can’t make soup just like boiling water and just ignore it. Bar? You have to go and see if you are confused after a while?
A slow-warming girl has a rich heart. Instead of having a fight with her, a small move on your part can get twice the result with half the effort.
Let me teach you some practical information. Everyone has a memo function on their mobile phones. When you are with her, pay more attention to the little things she mentions inadvertently.
It can be a preference or something you want to do. At this time, be sure to write it down. After a few days, if you help her realize it, I dare to tell you, she will definitely not be able to hold back at that time.
3. The right opportunity will bring you closer
To put it bluntly, this step is equivalent to Adding salt to the soup requires you to take the initiative to create the opportunity, and the soup will be perfect.
Generally, in film and television dramas, the female protagonist encounters difficulties and setbacks, and the male protagonist takes care of her. Of course, there aren't that many coincidences in reality, but if she doesn't encounter difficulties, you can.
Most girls are gentle and caring, especially girls who are slow to warm up. They are very passionate at heart, so you can act coquettishly and miserably towards her appropriately, which can bring you closer. When making soup, you must spend time and thought, so that the soup will be fragrant and taste good. Just like girls who are slow to warm up, time can prove how worth it they are.
Finally, I want to tell you that they really don’t want to hang you, and they are not green tea. On the contrary, they take their feelings very seriously.
Before I identify with you, I will be entangled in my heart for a long time, butOnce she decides to be with you, you will realize how dedicated a slow-warming girl is to feelings.
A girl who is the slow-warming type is just slow, not unwary. No matter how slow she is, you can still feel her response and half-hearted attitude towards you.
If you are still the same after two or three months of acquaintance, and nothing has changed, don’t you know what’s going on? Secondly, you may find that they often say things like "Are we moving too fast?" "I think we should be friends first" and so on. Don't be discouraged and use the above methods to warm her heart.
