If a woman loves you, she will always want to be with you. Therefore, if you are a woman who has not been entangled or even contacted you for a long time, stop deceiving yourself. In fact, we all know the truth of the matter. You are actually not that important to her.
One: Don’t make excuses for people who don’t contact you
Your mouth She said that she would never pay attention to her again, and that she would never be sad for her again, but she was holding her phone tightly in her hand.
Keep your eyes on the screen, and as soon as your phone vibrates, you will get up and reply immediately.
I believe many people have done this kind of thing.
My friend is a living example. He has been in love for a year, and although we are not far apart, we only meet a handful of times.
She was sick and taking injections, and the boys were busy playing games with their friends.
She made a mistake at work and called the other party in a bad mood. The other party said they were busy and hung up the phone.
Regardless of her sadness and despair, she thought about breaking up. As long as the other party gave in, she would let him drag her along.
Everyone could see that the boy was careless about her, but she was still defending him:
"He is too busy"
"He is preparing for the exam"
"He is stupid and can't speak"
Take it to heart"
To be honest, watching her defend the other party made me feel distressed and angry. It felt very powerless.
Just as you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, you can never wake up a person who is deceiving himself.
Love is something that cannot be hidden. People who really love you will not be able to leave you alone.
I can’t bear not to contact you for a long time. There is only one reason for not contacting you, and that is that he doesn’t love you.
Two: Don’t wrong yourself for someone you don’t contact.
There will always be infatuated men and resentful women in love. Wrong yourself for someone you don't love.
As we all know, Zhang Ailing was once obsessed with Hu Lancheng and could not extricate herself.
Hu Lancheng thought she was too tall, so she gave up her favorite high heels and stood beside him with her waist bent.
Later, Hu Lancheng fled for some reason and lived on Zhang Ailing's charity.
While chatting and flirting with other girls in a charming way, wait for Zhang Ailing to go to Wenzhou after all the hard work to find him.
But she saw him having sex with another girl. This time, Zhang Ailing chose to leave.
Zhang Ailing said something like this in her later years, "The best news I heard these days is probably the news that Hu Lancheng is dead."
Three: Don’t keep asking people who don’t contact you
A few days ago a boy asked I broke up with my girlfriend, and she never responded to my messages. Should he go find her directly?
I told him, "Don't."
When a person is busy, he may not be able to reply to you all the time, but he will not ignore you all the time.
Sometimes, her dodge is the answer, and her silence is rejection.
Sure enough, not long after the breakup, the girl found a new love, and she often showed off her affection in the circle of friends.
Only then did the boy realize that his ex-girlfriend didn’t like to show affection, she just didn’t want to show affection to him.
She doesn’t reply to messages, she just doesn’t want to reply to her own messages.
The reason is that she doesn’t like herself that much.
In fact, we all understand that adults don’t ask questions about their feelings.
Without explanation, it is a tacit understanding, a sudden separation, a natural decline, and a cold tacit understanding.
For that person who has not contacted you, stop defending him or her and stop asking questions. Time will tell you everything
