Boys who can’t always catch up with girls will definitely ask themselves in their hearts, why do they always fail to meet girls’ requirements? What kind of boyfriend do girls want? Today I will give you a summary of what girls think. What does your ideal boyfriend look like?
First of all, the ideal boyfriend knows how to give girls appropriate care in the early stages of a relationship and pay attention to girls in a long-term relationship.
For example, when we like a girl, we can't help but greet her and show her care. These are all concerns.
But it’s also concern. Why are some concerns disliked by girls? Because they don’t grasp the “degree” of concern.
I believe that most boys have done this to a girl: texting her good morning and good night every day. I thought I could move the other person, but in the end I received a cold response.
This is because we chase too closely and put too much pressure on girls. Remember, what people value most in a relationship is "being comfortable together."
And as you have known each other for a long time, what girls want more than caring at this time is actually attention.
Attention can make her feel that her charm is recognized at all times. Timely praise is a good way to do this. Sometimes a casual compliment from you can make her happy all day long.
If you want to ask what the "shortcut" is to chasing a girl, it must be: at any stage, you can meet her real needs.
If you really can’t make up your mind, pay more attention to the details when you get along. Every small improvement she makes is worth encouraging, and your relationship will heat up with each other’s attention.
Secondly, an ideal boyfriend knows how to trust girls and at the same time leaves a certain amount of personal space for girls.
Trust is actually a very subtle thing. It is like a tacit understanding and takes time to develop.
However, we need to note that trust is not about completely ignoring the other half, it is more like "everything is under your control."
We will all encounter such a problem in life, such as "should I check my partner's mobile phone?"
The best situation for two people to get along is definitely not when you can check her cell phone at any time and be satisfied at any time. It's that you have the opportunity to check each other's mobile phones anytime and anywhere, but based on your trust in each other, no one does it.
A higher level of trust is actually giving each other a certain amount of private space.
Of course, we’ve all heard of couples who didn’t trust each other enough and were miserable.
The reasons for this phenomenon are that on the one hand, boys have a strong desire to control, and on the other hand, girls lack a sense of security.You can tell me your story in detail.
Finally, the ideal boyfriend can not only lead girls to mingle with their friends, but also know how to adapt to girls' circles.
This is a detail, but boys often make mistakes. Every man must hope that his partner can get along with his best friend and look good on him.
When it’s time to get along with a girl’s friends, and I consider leaving a good impression on her friends, I feel a little reserved and uncomfortable, giving the girl the feeling that you don’t want to blend in with her. circle.
The ability to not force girls to participate in gatherings with their buddies, and to be able to get along naturally with the people around girls is also an ability that girls value particularly.
