We all know that when a girl faces someone she doesn’t like, saying she doesn’t want to fall in love may be a way of rejection. This doesn’t mean that a girl really doesn’t want to fall in love. When she meets someone she likes, she will Want to talk. But some girls really don’t want to fall in love. Let’s analyze the psychological reasons why girls don’t want to fall in love.
1. Poverty
Don’t think that spending money in a relationship is just a matter for boys. Girls also need to spend money in return, otherwise it will appear that boys are using them as cash machines. And it costs money to fall in love and date, and it costs money to give gifts during holidays... It is already not easy for a slum girl to support herself, not to mention saving money for shopping, so forget it and stop falling in love.
2. Lazy
When a girl is in love, she should show her best self in front of the person she likes. Secondly, some girls may be lazy, too lazy to go out, too lazy to put on makeup, too lazy to be with others. A person goes from being awkward to becoming familiar... so I don't push myself too much. When I'm not in love, I keep everything simple and no one complains.
3. Tired
Falling in love is not only about sweetness, there are also many troublesome things to consider, you will be entangled in some messy things, and you are always wary of the appearance of a mistress... ...It's nice to be alone. You can do whatever you like. Anyway, it's for sure that you like yourself.
4. Don’t want to be cheated
I always feel that people nowadays are a bit... in the name of love They use the guise of hooking up, euphemistically called falling in love, (such as Wu Yifan tricking a young girl into falling in love). In short, he is very disgusted with this and does not want to be deceived.
5. There are more interesting things than falling in love
Some people say that love is a luxury product, not everyone deserves it, and the happiness of a single dog is the fun of King of Glory, idol drama It looks good, the snacks are delicious, and it really doesn’t matter whether you’re in love or not.
6. Afraid of getting hurt
Some girls are afraid that if they give their sincerity, they will get hurt (concealed or deceived), so they simply stop dating because they are not hurting themselves!
7. There is someone in my heart
Some girls already have an impossible person living in their hearts. They cannot forget it and do not want to mention it. She is not interested in anyone seeking a relationship with her.
8. Waste of time
Falling in love requires spending a lot of time communicating with the partner, but holding the phone all the time Chatting is really tiring. If you don’t reply, the other party will think too much. trouble.
9. Delay in studying
When you are in love, your thoughts are on eating, drinking and having fun with your partner, and your learning efficiency is too low. And when you focus on one thing, such as taking a postgraduate entrance examination or starting a business, feelings will become a burden. Because falling in love is a matter between two people, you have to take care of the other person's feelings. So for my own sakeFor your own future, you should study hard first and talk about love later.
10. Haven’t met the right person
The one she likes doesn’t like her, and the one who likes her doesn’t make her feel good, so she should stay single!
11. Don’t dare to take the first step
Falling in love is always bitter and sweet, and the sweetness at the beginning is always wrapped in bitterness. If the two of them survived until the end, everyone was happy. But it is normal to give feelings without results, which will eventually lead to one of the people being scarred and heartbroken.
12. Get used to living alone
Some girls don’t want to be beaten when they get used to being alone. Disrupt the rhythm of life. For example, she just wants to stay home and sleep in on weekends, and doesn't want to go out on dates at all. And she can watch movies alone, eat hot pot alone, carry 15kg of things, and make money to buy the things she likes. Why does she need a boyfriend?
If you have gotten the above "psychological reasons why girls don't want to fall in love", you should know how to break through these problems and pursue her!
