When chatting with girls on WeChat, we often encounter slow responses on WeChat. At this time, many boys will think that the girls are not interested in them, and then start to press the girls. In the end, the girls will change from slow to uninterested. reply.
In fact, if a girl is slow to reply on WeChat, apart from the reason that she is not interested in you, the more reason is because she happens to be busy.
So, if you still want to chase her, then you need to do these two things when a girl is slow to reply:
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One: Don’t force it. Many guys may blame the girl for being slow to reply when it takes her a long time to reply to you. If you do this next time, not only will she be slower to reply, but she will not reply to you at all. Because she will think you are a chauvinistic, careless, immature, and worthless man.
Two: Don’t reply instantly every time. There may be brothers who know not to reply instantly, but don’t reply instantly every time. There is still a difference between replying instantly and simply replying instantly. Boys who reply instantly every time, or most of the time, will make girls feel like they are sure of you.
What does it mean to be sure of you? You can think about it in another person’s shoes: Suppose a girl is chasing you, you feel average about her, and she takes the initiative to chat with you, wishes you good morning and good night, and sends you messages in seconds Reply, then, do you have a feeling that "she must like me"?
This feeling is not terrible. What is terrible is that you don’t like a girl very much, and she cheats on you. Then you You will not have the idea to further explore this girl, and you will not have the enthusiasm to chat with her, because you know that she will definitely come to you. In the end, you will not cherish this girl. In the end, you will have nothing to do, but the girl will. Covered with bruises, you still think girls are childish! After changing positions, many boys pursue girls in exactly the same way! When you reveal your strong need to fall in love with a girl, the girl will also have a feeling that she is sure of you. If you want to succeed in chasing after her, than other men ( Competitors), your winning rate will be much lower. Don't even think about pursuing girls in a way that impresses, obeys, or pleases you.
You should focus on attraction, and attract each other. At the beginning, it is normal for girls to show mediocre interest. Many girls are cold on the outside but hot on the inside and need a process of attraction. Often the more anxious and worried you are, the more it will reveal your strong sense of need and purpose, which will make girls less interested in you. Secondly, this is also a sign of your lack of confidence.
The occasional instant reply is actually not a big problem. In the process of chasing girls, girls can feel your sincerity. Sometimes girls I happen to have time, and you also have time, so that you can have a good chat and get angry with each other.flower. Therefore, it is necessary for you to understand this detail first
Many times girls are slow to reply to your WeChat messages, but this is an opportunity to improve your status in her mind! For example, the following case: < /p>
We were still chatting with the girl at noon, but while we were chatting, the girl stopped replying and disappeared. At about 4:30 p.m., the girl replied and said: "I'm so sleepy zzz" Okay, when a girl says "so sleepy" or "so hungry", should we comfort the girl? The answer is no, why? From what the girls said, it’s not a big deal if you feel sleepy or hungry. If you’re sleepy, just sleep. If you’re hungry, just eat.
So, put away your "warm man" temperament for now. Unless there are some situations where a girl complains to you that she is tired from work, or says she has a cold, then such a thing is "big". If she tells you such a thing, then we can selectively comfort her. The girl here said she felt sleepy. In fact, to put it bluntly, it was just an explanation she gave herself for not replying to your message, or it was just a conversation starter.
Therefore, this moment should be a good opportunity to attract, not the time to show off the "warm boy"
In this case, it took the girl most of the time to reply, so we can reply: " Now I’ll punish you by singing a song.” This is not only to guide girls to sing to you, but it is also a very interesting topic and a good chat direction, which can transfer from singing to talent. If you are a boy who can sing, you still have the opportunity to take advantage of this opportunity. Show yourself so that girls can discover a different version of you and eventually be attracted to you.
However, you have to understand that punishment is not just asking girls to "do whatever you want" without any reason.
The premise of why punitive guidance can be used is that girls are slow to reply, because girls are "wrong" first. Therefore, we use reasonable "punishment" to push and pull relationships, upgrade them, and guide investment.
Therefore, girls are sometimes slow to reply to your messages. Instead, you can use this technique to achieve the effect of flirting, making girls more and more interested in you.