Many boys who are inexperienced in love are very naive when it comes to relationships. It is clear that girls are just playing for fun, so they think it is a prelude to love, so they foolishly confess their love, and end up alone and sad. So when chasing girls, you must be careful about the kind of ambiguous relationships that make you unable to figure it out. Let me teach you how to judge whether a girl is just having fun?
How to judge whether a girl is just having fun?
1. How much time does she spend on you
If a girl really wants to be with you The advantage is that it's not just for fun, it will definitely spend a lot of time with you.
Then if someone is a baby-raiser, you will be a spare tire. If there are only one or two babies, that’s fine. After she has raised that baby, she will raise your baby.
But if she has too many babies, she won’t have enough time alone, so as a spare tire, you should be able to feel it intuitively.
Especially during this period, I believe that many spare tires have disappeared automatically, because they themselves know that they can’t tell when they can meet.
At this time, if you still don’t get much attention, if you say something and she replies in a long time, then you may not even be... a spare tire.
2. Have you met her friends?
For those who are in a serious relationship, there are many circles of friends. There is an intersection. Girls will bring their boyfriends to meet their girlfriends. Even if the relationship is not confirmed yet, those who have ambiguous intentions will never be disliked.
However, don’t be ambiguous, that is, the kind who doesn’t want to establish a relationship with you. She will just hide you because a friend sees you, and she has to use her brain, make up a story, and explain for a long time. Very tired too.
Then if you are "ambiguous", how can you get out faster?
Don't hold it in. I am not scaring anyone. If you hold it in, you will get sick~ So Just vent to your heart's content, whatever feels good.
For example, you can challenge anything you have thought about but didn’t dare to try. I have a friend who was in agony after he fell out of love and made trouble at home.
Later, she suddenly said that she wanted to go bungee jumping. After jumping, she went home without any trouble. She went out to drink the next day, and then she seemed to get better quickly.
If you don’t dare to challenge these things, it’s okay. Just find a good friend to express all the frustrating things in your heart. You must say them out, and you will feel much better after you say them.
If it doesn't work, just come to me. I may be more comforting than your friends.
Do something else? I don’t know if your work is busy or studying is hard.It's hard, it's better to be busy, but it's better to be hard, but I'm afraid you are quite free and just hold your phone all day long and look at those chat records, photos and so on.
Listen to me and delete them all. Of course, I also know that it is very difficult to delete these things by yourself at first, so you should find a reliable friend to help you, and then it’s time to do it Whatever you do, whatever you want to do.
Try to fill up your time as much as possible, and try not to stay at home. If your attention is distracted, you will have no time to think about that.
Many people have been hurt if they think poorly of it. They will habitually think about the things in this relationship that they think are wonderful, and then they will feel even more uncomfortable. You have to force yourself, Think about the things that hurt you.
Just think about the scumbag behavior this person has done over and over again, try it, and soon she will become less and less in your heart.
